7 Things Not to Do When Kissing

Kissing is always fun to do – I still remember my first kiss – I think those are things that you will never forget. My husband and I like to talk about our first kiss (with each other, of course). Kissing is romantic and it can really set the mood. Of course, there are some things that you should avoid doing or saying when the two of you are engaged in this intimate moment. Below, I am going to give you 7 things not to do when kissing …

7. Don’t Charge with Your Tongue Sticking Out

This one could actually gross the person out. Instead, put your lips together, then insert the tongue. I know, it sounds funny, but that is how it is done. This way, we don’t actually see the tongue.

6. Don’t Keep Pulling Away

Of course, this if you want to be kissed. If you don’t want to be kissed, then you pull away and if that doesn’t work, smack them. Now, if you actually want to be kissed by that person, then don’t keep pulling away.

5. Oxygen

People hate it when you push too hard, shove your tongue down their throat and don’t give enough oxygen. You should do it gently and give room for oxygen. While I said do not keep pulling away, there is a time you need oxygen, so use that time to gently kiss the neck.

4. Don’t Make Jokes

While you are kissing and in an intimate hold, don’t keep making jokes. I think this is a bit childish and guys could get turned off by this one. Especially, if you are making jokes about saliva or something gross.

3. Don’t Belch

Oh goodness, if you feel that you are about to belch, please don’t do it in their mouth. By all means, ignore number 6 and pull away before you belch!

2. Don’t Pass Your Gum

Unless your partner specifically asks for you to give the gum from your mouth to their mouth, don’t do it. This could totally gross them out.

1. Don’t’ Say Someone Else’s Name

While you are kissing, I know things get in the heat of the moment, but you should avoid saying someone else’s name. You definitely should not say your ex girlfriend or boyfriend’s name. Also, don’t go and mention how they used to kiss – this is not the time or the place to do something like that and sometimes, things are better off not said.
Those are 7 things not to do when kissing. If you do these things, then your partner may not respect you so much the next time the two of you kiss. They may also try to avoid giving you kisses from then on out. Oh and as a reminder, before you kiss, make sure you clean your nose, because you would hate to introduce your partner to whatever may be inside your nose. I think I about covered it – do you have a terrible kissing story you would like to share with us?

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10 Things No Woman Should Have to ASK Her Man to Do

#1 Come up from behind and kiss her 

Probably one of the most underrated affectionate gestures of all time. But, there's no reason she should have to ask that this happens at every single opportunity

 

 

 

#2 Give her foot rubs

Women by nature are maternal and caring. So chances of her putting out affectionate and catering energy more than her man is high. Even the score. Grab her feet when you see her sitting/laying down and make them feel better than they did before you touched them.

#3 Random back massages

She works hard, loves harder. Make it worth her while.

#4 Pause the TV when she needs to talk

Not everything requires you to stop everything you're doing to listen but if something's on her mind or bothering her, put that higher on the priority list than your video game/TV show.

#5 Respect her privacy

Don't go through her phone, her purse, her email, etc. Nothing wrong with a relationship of transparency, but snooping around her stuff won't make your trust issues go away and shows lack of respect

#6 Cook for her sometime

Yeah, she gets hungry too ya know?

#7 Tell other women he's taken

Every man has to face temptation. You're not going through anything unique because women occasionally hit on you. But you should be the first one to set the record straight that you're off limits. Nip it in the bud, every time whether your woman is present or not.

#8 Clean up around the house

Cleaning up, at minimum, behind yourself, shows that you respect your things. If you have a woman that keeps the house clean, then helping out shows you value her hard work to do so.

#9 Protect and defend her honor

Particularly against people you knew before her and all men, see to it that your woman is never disrespected or made to feel uncomfortable by anyone.

 #10 Be in the children's life more than just financially (but that part too)

You can't feed a child a father's love, but you can't love that child with money alone. She shouldn't have to ask/beg you to show up and spend time with your child.

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10 Things Men Say When They Are Cheating!

#1 1. She’s Just a Friend... 

You discover he’s been talking to someone new, who is a female. He hasn’t said anything to you about her before you finding out about her and when you ask him if you can meet her, he objects. It’s because she’s really not a friend, she’s a #girlfriend.

 #2 2. Respect My Privacy. Don’t Touch My Phone...

He doesn’t want you to touch his phone for fear that you will either see #text messages from her or that she will send one just as you pick it up. He may even have pictures of her on his phone.

 #3 3. You Are Cheating on Me, Aren’t You?

Yes, men who cheat will accuse their #partner of cheating. Why? It’s because they start to think, “Well, if I can do it, she could do it too.”
#4 4. You Aren’t Good Enough...

All of sudden he pokes at all of the #things you do wrong and you have no idea what his problem is. He can’t cheat if he loves you or he thinks that you are good to him. So he makes himself believe that you aren’t good enough for him and that’s why he had to turn to someone else. In reality, you are more than good enough

#5 5. I Can do My Own Laundry...

At first, you might think he’s being sweet for helping you out. Unfortunately, he’s doing it so he can hide his soiled pants, perfume smell or some other evidence of his liaison with his lady friend.

#6 6. I Have to Stay after to Catch up on Work...

All of a sudden he has more work than he knows what to do with and he can’t come home when he normally does. It’s because he’s not really at work, instead he’s meeting with his #girlfriend without worry that you’ll catch him.

#7 7. After he is Caught...I Still Love You and Want to Be with You...

He says he loves you and wants to be with you; yet, he strayed and told someone else the same thing. It’s because he wasn’t having the affair because he didn’t love you anymore, he had it because he was disillusioned from reality. 

#8 8. I Didn’t Want to Hurt You...

He’s right, when he went out to have the affair, he wasn’t thinking, “I am going to sleep with this other #woman because I want to hurt her so incredibly bad.” Instead, he did it for his own selfish reasons without giving any thought to how it would hurt you

#9 9. I Don’t Want to Lose You...

In his last attempt to salvage any type of relationship with you, he may blurt out that he doesn’t want to lose you. You might think, “What did you think would happen when you chose to cheat on me?” Again, he never tied sleeping with someone else and losing you together. This may be a complete shock to him that you are actually leaving.

#10 10. She Means Nothing to Me...

She might not mean anything to him or he’s lying. Usually, #men who have affairs may not have wanted to get involved emotionally, but after sleeping with them multiple times, feelings start to develop. So, in most cases, he’s lying that she means nothing to him, what he really means to say is that he doesn’t want her over you.

Source: iamfedup.me

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